Every week @tuckermax@charliehoehn and @nilsAparker sit down with me to help with my problems meeting and dating women. I am a pale ginger from Ohio who just moved to Austin.
In this episode, they help me figure out what to do after I blow it with another great girl. We also talk about a good date I went on last week.
“Especially early, women will assume the worst and not give you the benefit of the doubt because she doesn’t know what’s going on.”
@ Beginning - Recap of the nurse that I blew off on our 3rd date.
@ 3:00 – Charlie reads my texts.
@ 5:00 - Understanding women and how they over-analyze
@ 7:00 – They give a better examples of how to reschedule a date
@ 16:30 – How to recover from this: have to be honest
@ 24:00 – The date this week with a new girl from Tinder
@ 30:30 – By owning my preferences and showing me who I am = connect
@ 34:30 – IQ Intelligence VS Mating Intelligence
@ 41:30 – Teasing women, difference between being funny and being a dick
@ 46:30 – Opportunities to be vulnerable and connect
@ 55:00 – How we first kissed
@ 1:01:30 – How to signal the good things about me (like being smart)
@ 1:10:00 – “Mating is not just about desperately trying to be attractive to women.”
The Mating Grounds - 1: Helping Joe