@viorica_vanica It works for me because 1- it doesn't feel like having to "forget" or "get over" the problem. Listing it down somewhere means I can come back to it and it doesn't feel like I'm forcing myself to ignore a problem. 2- it feels more "real" and therefore deal-able (that's not a word but I don't have the right word for it lol). Like, a list I can refer to every time I'm worried I am stressed over nothing. And a list I can tackle every time I do have the energy.
What I do with the list: schedule out time to just spiral/worry every couple days.
I have a very controlled morning routine, as that sets my mental state for the day. No phone or computer or email. I read my goals outloud. When I'm going through my morning routine (brushing my teeth, etc) I'm thinking about my day ahead and what the big things are to tackle. I'm aware of my mental state and if it's distracted or not on point, I give it focus and put it on point.
@alexander_moen that makes sence. Maybe should reduce my mail & messaging consumption directly after wakeup 🤔 and try to focus more on my goals. Will try this out! Interesting input, thx!
@jgrenzemann let me know how it goes. It doesn't sound like it'd make a big difference, but it does, especially in the long run. Think of it like other people getting to control your thoughts and actions (via email, whatever media story in your feed, etc. When you read that it hijacks your thoughts) versus you getting to focus on and prepare for your biggest moves of the day.
@alexander_moen@jgrenzemann there is a small window of time in your waking state that is the most insightful you'll have in the whole day! Use it to create. Not read the news, email, notifications etc.. those are other peoples' agendas.
@viorica_vanica no vision board, but I have my longer-term goals written down, as well as a couple excerpts from "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill. I have them all memorized, although I still occasionally read them as well, and say it out loud either way. I aim for some feeling when I say them and try to be mindful and actually think about and visualize what I'm saying, rather than robotically regurgitating some memorized lines.
@dawn_veltri1 I find the phone light really helpful for waking up. I know I could just turn on an actual light but find its not the same. Any suggestions?
@daniel_baum That blue light really wakes up our brains but so does a run if you’re into that 😂. I’m not sure on suggestions I think there are daylight alarm clocks that would do the same thing but I’m not sure.
No phone, email, news, notifications until you have set the agenda and know what your most important tasks are for the day TO YOU. Do those... then look at what other peoples agendas are.
Definitely phone - I tend to switch off wi-fi to not lose focus from social media updates. Also, no chit-chatters with colleagues as I work in the office. I tend to put on my headphones not to be disturbed.
@viorica_vanica I shared morning "no's" while I'm at work 😀
If we talk about the morning routine after I wake up, I don't use my phone till I make breakfast as I like to enjoy Youtube videos while eating. My routine is pretty simple. I start the morning with a glass of water that is next to my bed. Then I go to the bathroom and have a stretch afterward. After the stretch, I quickly make breakfast, eat and then head out. Pretty simple 😀
Conference calls, I try to schedule all of them in the evening because I feel mucho more productive talking to people after having done all the grunt work. 😎
No mobile internet and if I'm being hyper-focused, no phone calls either. You set your phone on flight mode and keep it at least 2m away from your workspace. 💻