Clever idea but once everyone knows about Tiyo then it doesn't work so well. I think there was an app that someone created where you preset a time to get the call and you can choose to take it or ignore it.
@jlax True, there will be a saturation point, but until then it's well worth it!
There are a number of apps that do what you say but the problem comes up when you are in a one-on-one conversation that you didn't expect. It would be pretty rude to pull out your phone in the middle of the conversation, "beep boop bop", and then 30 seconds you mysteriously get an urgent call. With a discreet button, you can hit it without anyone noticing and without planning. To boot we play a repeat-after-me script so you don't have to think up a convincing lie while you are panicked!
@jlax Yeah, even Kit-Kat has a promo app like that right now. It's interesting hearing everyone's stories on what they prepare or setup to get out of things. This just takes out the planning and lets you react to the unexpected.
@chronos I think it is a clever idea, especially your statement about having a BT button for the internet. That is an interesting idea. Triggering varied actions from the press of a button.
Eh. I have mixed feelings about this. While it seems like it could be useful, getting out of a conversation successfully requires respectful pro activeness (a valuable human skill that's developed by practicing), and this tool avoids it.
@eriktorenberg It all depends on the person using and the person they are escaping. Some people don't take any hints that the conversation is over no matter how clear they are, combine that with people who don't have the personality to just say fuck off in one way or another and there you go. Sometimes you just get into a situation where there is no viable reason for you to leave without offending someone or hurting their feelings. Sometimes there is no opportunity to escape (getting grilled by a boss or client) and you just need a reprieve.
I'm all for bettering myself and you may be to, but that's not to say that there aren't a lot of people out there who wouldn't rather just have an easy way out and who will never work on actively improving those skills! I'll make more friends and money catering to them than trying to improve their social skills in tough situations :)
You are in an interaction you want to escape. It comes down to 3 choices. You either:
1. Use your social skill to find a way out
2. Use a device or scheme to escape
3. Suffer through it and regret the lost time and experience emotional instability (boredom, frustration, embarrassment, anxiety, you name it)
#1 requires effort, skill, bravery, opportunity, none of which may be available to the person (and may never be). #2 requires $35 USD with free shipping, #3 is pretty much the alternative if you can't pull off #1.
It's also hard to step into other people's shoes if your personality just doesn't merit the need for a device like this (I've talked to quite a few who don't). I completely understand that. It's actually been interesting to see 2 friends who said they saw 0 use for it themselves eventually come back and say yeah they wish they had one now that they know it exists. I'm sure they didn't need it often, but even they saw the ones where it would just be easier.
@eriktorenberg agree. Itsa shortcut to managing awkward relationships. "I'm sorry but we'll need to finish this some other time" works most of the time. Wasn't there another app that came out recently to show you where people were that you wanted to avoid?
I'm really bad at exiting conversations sometimes. I'm going to pickup a TIYO.
It's similar to the much desired Tickle, that unfortunately never came to be (cc @alexcornell).
@rrhoover yeah you can be a little more discreet with it in your pocket too than trying to tickle your phone which could be mistaken for other bad looking things :)
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